Is your bf friends with...

Is your boyfriend friends with random girls on Facebook?? No? Must be nice.

Back story: my boyfriend has cheated in the past numerous times by messaging other women, sending nudes, receiving nudes, and physical twice. Its been months since anything like that has happened. Anyways I know I’m stupid for being with him - I get that. We’ve been together four years it when someone has weeds planted so deep into you sometimes it’s hard to remove them by yourself.

I saw a random girl loved a picture he posted today and I asked who she was. He told me he honestly didn’t know and I asked why he was friends with her then? He stated, “I’m not doing this right now. I’m not just going to go and delete people.” I try explaining to him that it makes me uncomfortable for a,b,c reasons. And he just gets mad.

Do you care if your man has random girls that he doesn’t know on social media? If it bothers you how do you go about talking to them?

I think the only reason why it’s so hard for me to leave is because I don’t want to see him love another woman & treat her right. I know that sounds toxic, but it would kill me to see him be with someone else.