He came in seconds

Okay so I’m not sure how to go about this! Please forgive me I am human.

We were getting pretty handsy tonight and he went down to town on me for a good while before I orgasmed. He came to lie up on top of me and I could feel his erection poking me down there.

Now before I go on let me give some backstory; My previous experiences with sex were only with one other person, and they had a lot of issues. For instance, they would never get hard from pleasuring me, they didn’t really listen to what I wanted/needed, and the more problematic one for me was that I could never make them cum. I would always get him close and then he would finish himself off. It really sapped my confidence in my abilities, I thought that I was doing something wrong.

Now back to my story. I grabbed him through his boxers and gave him a few good strokes before picking up some speed. Once I had worked him for a little bit I went to reach under his waistband and gave him a good few strokes before I pulled the hem of his waist band down.

He said he needed a second and I waited for a few seconds before gently guiding him.

Well.

He got about halfway in before he had to pull out as he came.

Guess I should’ve waited a little longer 😅

I’ve never had that happen before. We cuddled after and laughed a bit about it and I was smiling like huge. (I know for most girls this is an Aw bummer, but I honestly just love the knowledge that I can make someone cum. That I am good or at least okay at it.)

He’s a really great guy so I don’t want him to feel embarrassed about it, especially since it’s been a little while since he was intimate like that with someone else. Is there something I should do? He didn’t seem too upset about it, and I don’t really mind as long as he’s happy.

Any advice on how to make it last a bit longer? (Ya girl def wants a little action at least 😬)