Period 2 weeks late, negative hpt, bleeding after intercourse

Hey! Soooo, the subject pretty much described it lol but I am currently 13 days late, several negative hpts, I bled red blood during intercourse the day my period was due, stopped immediately after....now the 3 times we've had sex since then (TMI WARNING!!!!) there's this gross pink tissue like discharge (it literally looks like fleshy but pink and kinda chunky) on my husbands "stuff" and as soon as I shower after it goes away, no spotting afterwards or anything...I've had a normal pregnancy before and tested positive right away....i don't want to take off work to go to the Dr and don't have insurance but I'm getting a little worried... anyone have any ideas??