Thoughts on having a shower for second baby?

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I feel this one is talked about a bunch. I’m curious everybody’s thoughts on a shower with second baby. Gender change? Big age difference? Or does it not matter?

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Every baby deserves to be celebrated. It can be smaller than you’re 1st but at least have a “sprinkle”. My friend made her 2nd shower a gender reveal

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If you had 2 back to back and the sane gender I would pass because you honestly can just reuse other baby stuff mostly and then add a few things. But if you waited a few years then do it.
If change in sex of baby then go ahead.

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My #1 was 10 years ago and we are not finding out the gender until birth. I have nothing left from 10 years ago. Also I did not have a shower with my first. I am having one and I don’t care what everyone else thinks. So far everyone said I should have one.

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do what you wanna do!!

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I think if there is a large age gap it is totally acceptable. Gender change, okay.. we are having our second girl with a 2 1/2 year age gap and the thought of another shower never entered my mind. My mom keeps asking me to at least do a registry because some family members want to buy us stuff. I made a small one with a few new outfits, diapers, wipes, new bottles, new pacifiers. We have everything we need so I feel silly even doing that.

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I had two from the same gender and they’re only a year and a half apart. I always said the emphasis wasn’t on the gifts, the Godmothers of my girls threw them on my behalf to celebrate the baby. We did games and all got together. I have really lousy pregnancy’s so it was so nice to have a lovely day celebrating 🥳

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My first one we had a shower which was back in 2010 (girl) second we had a shower in 2018 (boy) now I’m pregnant again with a boy. I’m definitely not wanting a shower because people already expect me to have everything, the thing is I don’t. I sold and donated most big items like swing,bouncer, infant car seat, play pen (my baby hated it), walker and co sleeper. Why? Because my baby grew out of them I didn’t need them anymore, they were in good condition that other families can definitely use. Just found out I’m having a boy so I told my husband I don’t want a shower I don’t expect people to buy us anything. We are just going to buy the minimum and a toddler bed since I still have the crib. If people ask us we are okay with gift cards. My sister still wants me to have a small baby shower but honestly I just don’t see the point in it.

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I had a girl 15 months ago, I still have everything and although I’m having a boy, I was very gender neutral and he won’t need much! So I definitely won’t be having a shower. Some diapers would be nice though...

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I think it depends a lot on where you live and what the norms are there. Where I live I have not known anyone to have a baby shower for a second child except one who had a 11 year gap between her children.
If it’s more common where you live then go for it!

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It's  up to the  parents honestly. I had a baby  shower  for my first and second. My first was a boy my second  was a girl. There was 6 year age gap between  them. Im pregnant again and would like to have a baby shower. I don't  think it's tacky at all

Thoughts on having a shower for second baby?

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