I dont have enough sex!

Ok so me and my husband have been married for just over a year now! Im 29 he is 41! And since weve been married our sex life is just going lower and lower to the point its like 3-5 a month max!!! This isnt enough for me i want more!

Like some nights when our son is in bed he will just automatically play xbox and im just there led on my phone if i was to trt and tempt him he gets all pissy about it!

I know that after marrage it can be less but i wasnt expecting it to be this less!

We both work full time and have a year old but thats no excuse surely??

Also sometimes he cant control himself and gets carried away before i even cum which is crap because he doesnt even finish me off