Is it silly to be dating someone you know probably won't be together forever with. I know he's said he could see me like that but wouldn't want to get my hopes up and that he wants more experience in the future and one day to be single for a while. I'm 20. He's 22. What do you think? I'm jealous of everyone who's already found their for sure person would i be wasting my time here or should i just relax and enjoy my time in this relationship while I have it? I get sad seeing people my age married and that smitten already. And I feel bad because it doesn't mean he's a bad boyfriend just cuz he isn't promising forever. But I can dream I can dream. As a child I never let myself get excited cuz I knew I'd be disappointed or put back into a bad situation, so I've kinda ruined myself a bit obsessing over how long were going to be together. Can someone please give me tips on how to just calm down? I'm just so jealous some people already have a family and I feel behind.