Ohh.i fell so irritated at how his penis is becoming everyone's business.

I and my husband agreed not to do it.

I take sooo long to make permanent decisions. I got my ears pierced and I was glad it was my choice because I would have felt robbed if my mom did it for me. I fear making permanent decisions that I can't take back and then regret it. And I want the same for my son. Free will to choose.

My husband got circumcised when he was 25! When we were dating. He handled it fine and said it was bearable. Even then, I told him I don't mind him not being circumcised but he wanted to do it for himself so he did. Was his choice.

So I think if my son really wants it, he can go get himself circumcised when he is ready for it.

But gash the pressure. I don't want to just give in to peer pressure but they keep saying all these negative things about not doing it. I am concerned they might bully my son when he is old enough about not being circumcised and make him want to do it due to pressure. I know my husband did it due to pressure because everyone was doing it.

They tell me sex with a circumcised man is better. I can't argue that because I never slept with my husband until after my wedding and by then, he was already circumcised so I don't know how apparently "bad" it can be with uncircumcised men.

I honestly know no one around me who is with an uncircumcised man and says it is good. So u guys can tell me.

Yet again. My son's sex life ain't my business so why are they pressuring me?