Covid and being pregnant

Me

I don’t know where to post this exactly but I need to let my anger out. I am so pissed. I have 3 kids ages 2,4,8. I am also pregnant (8weeks). So my husband’s idiot coworkers decided to throw a party last Sunday. Of course we did not go. We have not gone anywhere other than for walks and grocery shopping since this whole pandemic started. It turns out one of the wives has covid. Her husband works next to my husband. They did not need to wear masks due to being in one shop as they are car mechanics and do not interact with anyone outside of their area. Now, my husband might have covid. Now, I could have covid or my kids. I am fucking pissed at people being so irresponsible and putting others at risk. Why can’t we just social distance and stay the fuck home other than going to work or school? I can’t even get my appointments done for genetic testing if I come down with covid since I have to quarantine myself. I am worried and angry. Anyone was in this situation before? How does covid effect an almost two year old? Or a pregnant women specifically when mc risks are higher? I needed to vent thx

Edit:

So most of you are saying the person who only goes to work is responsible for getting infected with covid cuz hell why are you going there and not the people who actually get together with 20,30 or 40 people for weddings and babyshowers. I can’t comprehend how this is my fault or my husband’s fault when he obeyed to all the rules that his work implemented. He does wear a mask where it is required but he has his own bay where he stays majority of the time. I can’t understand why people who risks spreading it are not at fault or held responsible but others who obey the rules and social distance at work and outside of it are if they catch it? My son can’t wear a mask since he is 2 so it’s his fault or mine if he gets it even if I don’t take hime anywhere? It’s totally my fault...this app sucks. I am concerned for my kids and my family’s well being and I am not allowed to be mad at people who don’t social distance? This is just what someone who is going through a threatened mc needs right now plus being at fault even tho I did my absolute best. But I can’t control people and apparently I have no right to be upset with the guy who spreads this shit of a virus to my family. Maybe, just maybe, he should have not showed up at work with fucking covid !!

Edit #2: i do not live in America. Here we have fines if you are in a group of more than 10. That is your social bubble and clearly these people went against the rule and got infected. We have had police shutting down house parties and giving out large fines. Weddings are not allowed if more than 10 people attend. Our economy just opened up after being in stage 4 shut down. So yeah I have the right to be mad. Would you not be mad if someone would hit a person crossing the road? Or would you blame it on the guy who did not pay more attention to the car even if he did what is required lets say wait for the light to change so he can cross? I do not feel my husband is at fault of catching it. If this other guy would have been careful and not go to parties and still have it I would not be mad. BUT he is irresponsible by getting together with all his buddies and spreading the virus. The manager of the shop is one of those who attended this so called party and had to go on a forced leave. The whole company will shut down because of an idiot who can’t stay home like the rest of us?! Yeah I am pissed.

*The fine for gatherings more than ten people is 10 grand for the person who hosts and 750 bucks for all the attendees. *

Last Update:

Three other dealerships have been exposed to covid due to the above mentioned party. That means over 170 people at three work places can be infected plus their families at home! Yeah, I am pissed off thx for the party people