Hormones or not?

Question

So just need a rant. I’ve just found out I’m pregnant with our 3rd child so not sure if this is hormonal or not.
My husband and I had arranged to go on a date night tonight. This is very rare and haven’t been on a night out just the two of us in well over a year. My mom was gonna come baby sit and I was gonna book us a table. 
So anyway yesterday my husband decided he didn’t wanna go out anymore and was more up for just a chill in the house. I was ok with this and I cancelled with my mom. 
Now today he saw his friend and his friend asked him if he wanted to go for a couple of drinks with a few of their friends and he agreed to it. 
Now I’m pissed and pretty hurt that he said he didn’t wanna go out but yet he said he’d go out for a bit with his friends. So I’m thinking I cancelled the sitter so I can’t go out but you can when you didn’t want to? 
He thinks I’m emotionally unstable and making it all about me just because I expressed how it made me feel.
Am I wrong?
Anyways he’s said he’s not going out now because of our fight and now it’s really awkward between us and I just feel so sad about it all!

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Not hormones. That's just a shitty decision on his part and not ok. 
He doesn't feel like going out with you but he'll go out with someone else? Hell no

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No way I'd be pissed too!

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No that’s just rude and inconsiderate. The fact that he’s blaming it on pregnancy hormones is even shittier.

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I would be furious.. pregnant or not.. it's just plain wrong on his part.. I would tell him.. don't bother to come home.

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That would annoy the hell out of me, and it’s happened before (though we didn’t have kids then). At least for me, pregnancy hormones didn’t really start affecting my emotions until like 8ish weeks and it was super light - at 15 weeks my emotions are definitely stronger and I’m much more easily annoyed and emotional. But if you’re early on I’d doubt your pregnancy hormones are affecting your emotions at all at this point. Personally I think he’s using it as a cop out. 
My fiancé did that too though and it made me feel like I wasn’t a priority at all. He’d cancelled last minute (like i was already making dinner for our now home date) when he decided to tell me he was going out. I think he invited me along, but it was clearly a second thought and not the same as the one on one date night I wanted and thought he did too. So it hurts. It honestly took a few weeks to even understand why I was so hurt by that, but in my mine it’s so rude.

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Did he want you to cancel the sitter? Was he expecting a night home alone with you?

Hormones or not?

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