20 weeks?

I really don’t want to announce my pregnancy before 18-20 weeks. We’re probably telling our parents and very immediate family before then, maybe 12-15 weeks. We’ve had multiple losses and this time we just want to do it “ourselves,” if that makes sense. Anyway, would I be showing by then? I’m a FTM, and have a bit of pudge on my belly anyway. Can you show me your 16-20 week belly? Or tell me if you were/weren’t showing? Much appreciated!