Is this “normal”? Trigger warning

I’m pregnant with my second and processing some things that happened while I was pregnant with my first.

During my last pregnancy one of the male OBs and another male OB came into the room after I had gotten into a gown and was alone in there on the bench. There was no nurse. The OB I had met said, “This is Dr. So and So and he’s joining our practice, he’ll be doing your exam today” and left, so I was alone in the room with this new OB. The new OB started my vaginal exam and said, “Wow you’re really small, don’t worry I’ll be gentle.” And I didn’t say anything because I was nauseated and froze/felt he had predator vibes. I don’t know if it’s me or if he actually was being a creep.