Would you get back together with an ex that slept with someone else during your break up ?

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So ladies I have a question. How would you feel if you and your bf / gf (of 4 years) broke up and were broken up for about 2 months. During this time, you still texted sometimes. After the 2 months, they start to act like they want you back. But you find out that they had sex with someone else while you were broken up?! Would you take them back or no?

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I wouldn’t take an ex back period. But who they sleep with when we aren’t together is none of my business.

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No. When we broke up he expressed pretty quickly he wanted us to fix our issues and get back together. I told him that I would be willing to consider that if I actually saw him working on the relationship and himself and making changes, but if he slept or even talked to anyone else on our break it was a deal breaker for me. Reason being, if he really was focused on our relationship and wanting to be better for us, then that should be his focus and winning me back. Not doing some other girl or “enjoying his freedom”. If he had I wouldn’t have resented him for it, as it’s not cheating - we were broken up. But it would have meant to me that we were done with no chance of getting back together. 
Even still, be very cautious in getting back together with an ex. You broke up for a reason and sometimes going back can cause even more pain if those issues never really were resolved. I still don’t know if I’m making a mistake in going back, but I’m pregnant so if there is a chance of those issues resolving I want to know sooner rather than later. But I’m trying to keep my eyes wide open and have been very clear with him that he gets ONE more chance - that’s it.

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I have. My boyfriend and I broke up and he slept with someone else (🙄). He was hurt and lashed out. He didn’t tell me right away, but when he did I didn’t leave him for it. It happened while we were temporarily broken up. It was a dick move but not cheating.

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If you were broken up the other person did nothing wrong

But PERSONALLY no bc my ass be petty. Cheating is one whole thing, sleeping with someone else while on a ‘break’ is never wrong.

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That wouldn't stop me from taking them back. Lol, you act like I haven't done that 🙃
Yeah if you aren't together it's fair game. Doesn't really bother me.

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It would depend on the circumstances surrounding the break up and who he slept with, if it was someone he knew like a friend or something I don’t think I could get past that because I’d feel like he was always attracted to them. If it was a stranger though I don’t think it would matter too much.

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You weren’t together so they’re allowed to dm have sex with someone else

Would you get back together with an ex that slept with someone else during your break up ?

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