I’m 23 and i still can’t orgasm

the only way i get what i think is an orgasm is from squeezing my thighs together and this has been the only way i can cum ever since i was 12. no man has ever made me cum no matter how amazing it felt it never led to the same feeling i get when i squeeze my legs. would be kinda nice to be able to cum from rubbing or touching myself or from my bf eating me out and fingering me bc it feels really good and i feel pressure but nothing ever happens

anyone else has this problem