D & C

I'm not sure what I want to write, I feel like I just need to get it out somewhere. I know miscarriage is common and happens to a lot of women. I never really thought it would happen to me. Which is naive I know. I guess I've never had people in my life who have really talked about it. It just didnt occur to me this would happen.. I'm scheduled for a D & C tomorrow. I was supposed to be 12 weeks but baby measured at 9. Struggling as my husband recently relocated for work and I am alone with our toddler until we move. I have really great coworkers who are going to help me out. But its definitely so isolating. And just crushed my heart when the doctor asked if I had anyone to support me. Idk how to get through this emotionally. I never realized the emotional toll this can take so in a complete state of shock. Just looking for any words of advice or what to expect moving forward.