I don't like my vagina...

So I have been self conscious about my vagina for the past few years. I feel like my lips are too long and that they are too dark. I have been with the same guy for 3 years and I have never asked him is he likes my vag. I don't want to gross him out or make him feel uncomfortable by asking. He also NEVER eats me out and I don't know why. I give him blow jobs all of the time and I loveeeee his penis and I tell him that I love his penis. He is the first man I have ever enjoyed giving head. Anyway... like I said...I don't like my vagina and I don't know what to do about it. Is there surgery to fix it? Ahhh i don't know. Anybody feel the same way about their own? Any suggestions? Any alternatives to surgery?...because I feel like that would be an awkward thing to tell anyone about.