How should I feel?!

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So I've been on Bedrest since 26 weeks because of my shortened cervix, & on thanksgiving I'll be 30 weeks. My be lives with me and his family lives 2 hours away.. I'm going to ask the doctors if I can go up there for thanksgiving, but if they say no he still wants to go up there for the weekend... How should I feel about this? Please give me all opinions

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I wouldn't risk it!!! Healthy baby is the most important. I don't think your husband should be planning to go anywhere without you ESPECIALLY far away even if it's thanksgiving....

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To be honest with you, I wouldn't risk it at all.. Specially because of the long drive and your body is used to being relaxed all day.. Believe me you will be uncomfortable during that car ride!

I've also been on bed rest but for a funneling cervix & had a cerclage placed at 20 weeks.. I will be home this year for the holidays! A healthy baby is more important & both sides of our family (hubby's&mine) is very supportive and completely understanding..

Wish you all the luck doll..

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If you do go into labor he would be able to be back within two hours.   Probably less since he would be hauling tail, lol.  I would let him go,  but it's what the two of you feel comfortable with.   Tell him how you feel and see what he says.

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What if you go into labor while hes gone on his trip?? Me personally, if I was him, I wouldnt leave. I'm sure my fiancé wouldn't leave me either, anything could happen and he wouldn't want to miss anything or leave me by myself. 
If dr says no, I hope he rethinks this situation. 
Good luck girly♡

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I am having to stay close to home, and I've told hubby he is free to go home for Thanksgiving to see his family 9 hrs away. I don't know that he will, but I'm not going to tell him he can't see his  family.

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