insecure.

today my fiancé told me he isn’t attracted to me the way he used to be. he told me i let myself go, because i wear comfy clothes and don’t do my hair every day. also he implied that i’m fat, without actually saying those words. and he constantly tells me “i can’t love you if you don’t love yourself”. i can’t tell you the last time he showed me off, or even told me i was beautiful. i can’t find confidence in myself these days. i work long days 6 days a week. and getting dolled up outside of work has became a struggle because i want to rest on my day off. but clearly it’s causing my fiancé to not want to be with me. and now i’m questioning my entire relationship..