When he says “You are thinking about it too much and that’s why it doesn’t happen”

Every time the same talk... I might cry too much and does not explain it properly. All I asked for is a hug and kind words. I guess that can only happen in my dreams. He doesn’t know what to do cause he doesn’t understand and might never will. I am control freak, but wouldn’t be after so many years of waiting to become a mama?! 2 years we are trying for. I wanted kids many years ago, but at the time he didn’t. Lord, give strength. Sorry, I needed to vent a little :(