How to lose attachment?

Question

How do I lose attachment to someone who is clearly no good for me? He is selfish, a liar, and a cheater. Not sure why I keep having him in my life. He's immature as well. Any suggestions?

Answer

You need to work on yourself. Ask yourself why you tolerate having someone in your life like this. It reflects that you undervalue yourself. Would you want your best friend or daughter to be with someone like this?  Why are you lesser than them? Once you figure this out, you'll be able to cut him out. Dump him and just flat out stop responding to him.

Answer

Block him and don’t contact him. I know it’s hard to not go back but you have to think of yourself as HIGHER than being someone else “soulmate” or wife. Think of yourself as higher than any partnership and latching onto someone for validation and love and what I like to call “exciteable feelings”. Don’t let disrespect be disguised by love. He isn’t that great of a guy if he’s also selfish, a liar, and cheater (HES CLEARLY NOT THAT GREAT). When you think about going back just think to yourself “I’m better than this, I have better things to do, I’m better than playing these silly games”. Trust me I know toxic relationships feel so good and so exciting (toxic queen over here) but you can’t let someone else be the only source of love, happiness, and how you feel confident. Be that for yourself, find some hobbies, research something interesting that you want to know more about, learn how to do something new, find what makes you unique and let that be your source of happiness and confidence not some loser ass man. When you’re thinking about yourself and your goals you don’t have time to think about him and entertaining bullshit.

Answer

Block all contact so he can’t get in touch and vice versa and move on, don’t let him manipulate you to go back.

How to lose attachment?

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