SAHM vs husband

How many stay at home moms have a husband who works full time and comes home and does more than the bare minimum? My husband works over night’s usually from 11-8. He comes homes and doesn’t clean, can’t even be bothered to take his dog outside (we live in an upstairs apartment) doesn’t cook. He “plays” with our son by playing video games with him (he’s 2) and will occasionally hold our daughter (2 months). He will change diapers if I ask or if they are noticeably wet. He goes to sleep around 12/1pm and sleeps until he has to wake up for work again and that’s how our day goes every single day. On his off days he goes to friends houses or will sit on his phone at home or play the video game. We might occasionally go out to eat or go do something. I do everything for these damn kids. I cook, I clean, I do everything for the house and the dogs but he says what I do isn’t hard and since he works full time he doesn’t have to do anything when he comes home. I am so fucking OVER IT. He thinks he does enough by paying the bills, which he can’t even do on time. So who has a husband who works full time AND still helps clean, cook, and watch the kids???