Experience with marriage counseling?

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Any couples have gone through counseling and things got better? After 2-3 years of ups and downs, I finally got my husband to agree to go to counseling. We struggle with communication, and when we argue it can get bad. However, we know that we do love each other and want this to work.
With that being said, please tell me your experience. Did it work out for you and your spouse? My husband thinks they will actually try to get us to divorce. I don’t know why, but I’m just glad he’s finally coming.

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Yes! Counseling separately and marriage counseling has helped my marriage so much. Looking back to a year ago it was toxic but now things are amazing and we’ve both gotten a grip on what’s right and wrong in the relationship to help us grow. I highly recommend doing this!!

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I think there are good and bad counselors and you need to find one that works for you. If you have a trustworthy friend that can recommend someone, try that. 
I’ve had both good and bad ones. We went to one that did more talking than we did so that was a bad experience. Then we found a lady that LISTENED. She asked a lot of questions that first session and listened to us. I felt like she had a good grasp of our situation so when she gave us tools to help us, it worked. 
It was clear we both wanted to work out our problems so the words separation and divorce never came up. Tell your husband this. Your relationship can be better; neither of you have to continue to be frustrated; y’all can be happier than you’ve ever been. Prayers for both of you and your marriage; that it grows to be stronger than you hope FOREVER.

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I went for a year I would only recommend DBT therapy for couples.

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Counseling literally turned everything around for us. We couldn't communicate with each other and we would just talk right past one another until we spent about a year in counseling (together, and individually).
It's the best thing we ever did. The counseler we used was absolutely amazing, and now we're closer than we've ever been.
We look back at how things used to be and we just laugh at how absurd we were. I promise you that things can get a whole lot better in a very short amount of time!

Experience with marriage counseling?

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