Is my husband the only one

I need to emphasize I love this man but today I lost my cool.

He took off and ran errands today, totally fine. But kept calling and wanting to chat....while I am chasing a toddler around and pregnant...then sounding mad I couldn't give him my undivided attention on hockey laces....

Then comes home and wants to order new phones totally great. But then gets mad I am putting laundry away, playing with toddler, and drying my hair. Tells me I need to focus.

Like excuse me you need to learn to multi task. This is an ongoing issue for us. I am with a toddler all day every day so have to cram my to do list in with caring for him. Then husband wants my attention whenever he demands. Like I would like to just breath. I would love to run errands alone or shop on my phone with no other distractions. I also would love to focus souly on my husband when he ever so wishes. I just don't live in that reality.

Do other wives struggle with husband's who are not multi takers and who are not respectful of limited time?