Baby shower etiquette

Wondering what is appropriate as far as these concerns. We have a few family members who live out of state who I know won’t make it to my baby shower. I know with a wedding you send invites anyways cause they might send gifts but idk if that’s rude in a baby shower situation. A few are close aunts that it would also be more to envolve them, I’m not sure if they would feel left out... idk. Also is it weird to put our Venmo next to the baby registry link so people can send money if they want to? I don’t want to offend anyone. These are things I’ve seen at weddings and that we did at ours years ago. But want to make sure I know what’s appropriated for a baby shower!