Me and my fiancé have been together 2+ years so far.

By no means would he cheat on me and I really dont want “girl just leave” answers because I’m not asking if I should leave.

Okay , I found his “only fans” account he must have just made or Idek when he made it because I just found it tonight on his browser history..

He’s not paid or following anyone so I’m not mad , he doesn’t even like me watching porn so Idek why he has it , maybe curious or something but it’s the fact he did it without saying anything when he know I look at his phone , and just the fact he created an account and wanted someone else’s attention..

I “caught” him on snap flirting with a prego chick and they both told me that flirting only happened when he was drunk ...

Great ..

whatever .. I told her to fuck off and I told him that he doesn’t get any more chances..

I have no inclination that he is cheating , I see his location24/7 and he can see mine just in case of emergencies, hes never out late or always on his phone ..

but porn and only fans are way different to me ...

I just need advice on what to say .. or ask or Idek

We have great communication but I just feel like I’m going back down the road with my abusive ex.. he would actually cheat on me and pay for cam sites and just be shitty and abusive..

My fiancé isn’t like that but I feel hesdoing some of the same things .. how do I get my point across that I’m hurt .. I’ll just shut down when he gets irritated at the argument or me bring up my ex ..