If you recently had a miscarriage and got pregnant again would you surprise your husband again with the news?

Question

I had an early miscarriage in September, waited to tell my husband and that night I miscarried. He was very upset that it happened he barely had 24 hours to process it from happy to sad. 
Fast forward to trying again, if I got pregnant again I’m debating surprising him in some way after I confirm the pregnancy via blood. 
Debating if I should just tell him instead.

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I think miscarriage has forever changed how I handle finding out I’m pregnant. I think it ruined the innocence of the excitement for me. I had 2 back to back miscarriages. The 2nd and 3rd time around I told my husband ASAP. I don’t think I would’ve been able to get excited and happy about it again to be able to come up with a surprise. It wasn’t really a happy time for me, it was more of an extremely stressful event. I have always told my husband as soon as I have found out.

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We've been ttc for 3 years and we've had 4 miscarriages in that time. Every pregnancy I had, I just told him. However, my last miscarriage made the doctors believe that the next pregnancy will be a healthy one and that gave us back a lot of hope so I have a plan on how to surprise him. I feel like surprising him will add an element of hope that we desperately need in order to not be so scared the next time around.

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I would tell him as soon as I found out I was pregnant. Why do you need to confirm it first with a blood test?
As I see it you're a team and you're in this together. So of course I should know. And if you want to surprise him, then you absolutely should.

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Well if that new pregnancy ends up being another miscarriage is it better to wait till u will MC again ti tell him or when you are actually finding out and your happy and you want to take day by day if being happy? I also had a miscarriage in September then got pregnant again in October had 2 losses back to back first MC I told him when I suspected a loss I couldn’t go through it alone so I will tell me again as soon as I find out we’re pregnant his the dad he needs to know wether the pregnancy will make it to term  or not

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I had a miscarriage in August. Found out I was pregnant in October. 
I showed my husband the pregnancy test as soon as I saw the test line show up.

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I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks in february then got pregnant again in april. I immediately told my boyfriend when I found out due to the fear of having a miscarriage again. I found out the gender and waited to tell him until i was in the second trimester. I surprised him with the gender :)

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Personally, I just told him. I was extremely worried how he would take it since he was upset when we lost our baby. Going forward, it has changed how I feel about pregnancy. I’m not worried, excited, or anything really about this new pregnancy.

If you recently had a miscarriage and got pregnant again would you surprise your husband again with the news?

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