So long story short , I wasn’t told til later he was infected. I’m not sure if he was shedding or if he had blisters etc. when i asked, he said he hasn’t had any outbreaks during our time together (but i mean let’s be honest he lied he even had it) I have no symptoms. No nothing so far. I made an appointment to be checked on the 23rd of this month. The guy is wanting to be together but I’m extremely uneducated when it comes to being sexual with someone whose infected . Advice ? Can you transmit herpes even without an outbreak?