husband is 21 — has low libido... 😥

i’m 22 & we’ve been married for nearly two years now, and dating for six. my sex drive is thru the ROOF, while his is just... nowhere to be found.

YES, we’ve had conversations about it. i feel like it’s the only thing we really argue about. he says that it’s him & not me, but i can’t help but think he’s just not finding me physically attractive anymore. 😥 we waited until marriage to have sex too!!

he doesn’t like going to the doctor, and i’m sure it would be a BLAST if he went in to talk about sex. whether it’s depression, stress, hormones, alcohol or his diet, i highly doubt that he’d be willing to go...

i’m just at a loss at this point. i feel like i’ve tried everything, and now it just feels like i’m trying as hard as i can to get his attention... physical touch is my #1 love language, and i really don’t feel like he’s taking that into account.

that definitely doesn’t mean he HAS to have sex with me. it’s his choice too and i completely respect that. however, if we’re going weeks at a time without it, something’s got to be wrong, right? 😭