Should I wait? No attitude or self righteousness please

Ive been with my bf for over a year

Before we got together we were good friends so he knows a lot about my past relationships. This has been a bit of a negative for us tbh but anyway

So for Christmas I was thinking one of the things I want to get him is an engraved flask. Hes mentioned he wants a flask and I know he won’t get one himself

Well I’ve gotten an engraved flask done for my last ex before and I guess back when we were just friends I probably showed it to him out of excitement just because I used to share a lot with him even as friends

Now im second guessing that this might trigger my bf with some insecurity that im getting him something I’ve gotten someone else before.

Its been really hard at times, but My bf is trying his best to work thru his insecurities and we’ve currently been at a good place...but I’m afraid that maybe this could trigger something in him and i should instead wait until we are more stable and more time has passed and should save this as a later present.

I wish I had never gotten my last ex the flask lol cause he didn’t deserve it and I would obv love to be the one to give my bf a nice engraved one....idk would you care? Or if you were dating someone that’s working thru insecurities would u think it best to hold off on this?

I was thinking if I got him a bunch of different gifts it wouldn’t be bad because the flask wouldn’t be the sole focus..but still I’m hesitant and just trying to be as mindful as I can.. Thanks