My bf doesn’t really seem to care..

So he’s been at his mom’s house watching is 15-year-old sister because his mom is out of town. His mom asked both of us to watch her but he acted like just HE wanted to go. So I was like whatever, I’ll enjoy some alone time at the apartment for a few days! He spent the night the past three nights and I’ve barely seen him. But last night he kinda ticked me off but i didn’t say anything, so now I’m ranting because I’m slightly more annoyed and I’m afraid if I don’t rant to someone, anyone, I’ll accidentally snap at him lol.

So he wasn’t home all day yesterday again, but I asked if I could use his laptop for work. I have a project that I need photoshop for and only he has it, I dont. I told him I need it asap because the deadline for this project is this week..I just needed to get it to my boss as soon as possible. My boss already gave me all the info yesterday morning so i told him I’d get it back to him as soon as i can. I did the rest of the project on my computer, but the part i needed photoshop for takes about 1-2 hours to do. I want to get it to him as soon as possible and my bf knew that. He knew all week how much I was rushing to finish it.

So since he hasn’t been home at all, he had to work an event last night and needed his computer for it. He said he would drop it off to me after the event before going back to his (15-year-old) sister and spending another night. So I was like okay cool thanks..il over the laptop and I’ll finally get to see you if only for a brief moment. And I didn’t wanna wait until today because we have friends coming from out of town..they’re already here actually, spent the night at my bf’s mom’s house with my bf and his sister.

So this event was only about 10 minutes away from our place. His mom’s house is in a different town, probably 30-40 minutes away. I was looking forward to seeing him for a brief moment last night, and also getting this project done and sent and out of my mind. Well. Last night at around 10pm after the event ended he calls me and says “hey I’m just gonna go straight to my mom’s house now.”

????

Like boy; you are 10 minutes away. You said you don’t need your computer anymore. I NEED IT. You said I could use it..and you can’t even spare the extra 10 minutes to see me for just a few seconds?? Like it kinda hurt but at the same time I was like whatever. So I just cleaned the apartment to keep myself occupied since I couldn’t finish my project. And went to bed at like 11:30. Well i asked him what time he’ll be home today or if he could at least drop off the laptop..he says he doesn’t know. Probably sometime later in the afternoon or evening. Like ...............

I’m confused.

Obviously I get that he wants to make sure his sister isn’t throwing a rager, and his friends were on their way to his mom’s house so he wanted to see them but...our apartment was so close to his event. I told him I needed the laptop. An extra 10 minutes would’ve been nothing..even to just see me briefly since we hadn’t spent time together in days. Ugh. I feel like I’m gonna unintentionally get snippy with him today..because now I’m gonna have to use his laptop and finish this project for a little bit while all our friends are here..and giving it to my boss like 24 hours later than I wanted to.

Update:

Woke up to not a single word from him. Sent him a Snapchat of his cat and he just replies with “omg!!” So I wait a few hours hoping he’ll say something .....and nothin. So I sent him a text, tried to be nice but I was a little snippy lol. Said I would appreciate it if he would at least let me know when I can use his laptop and I hope I can hear from him at some point today. Because it’s already the afternoon and he hasn’t even texted me a good morning or anything but whatever, I’m more concerned about the laptop.

So he calls me and HE gets mad. Because he said he completely forgot and said I should’ve reminded him last night when he called me. And I said “you told me you weren’t coming home..the whole point of you coming home WAS to give me the laptop and then leave.” And he goes “no the point of me coming home was to see you!!” And I was like um no, you said you were gonna drop it off and go..and now you’re saying that wasn’t the point of coming home? Okay whatever. I get that he forgets things but it’s just frustrating that he forgets the most important things. Like this is artwork I’m doing for a company, it is a big deal for the both of us because it’s a commission for a big company in our city and we were both so excited for it. So how do you just forget that? Also forgot our anniversary...forgot the time he took my virginity...and it also just hurts that he woke up and didn’t even bother to text me, at all until the afternoon. Like maybe a good morning text at least? Because you’re my boyfriend and these are the first few nights in months that you’ve slept alone and away from me. So I just said “it would’ve been nice to hear from you at all today” and he goes “it’s a two way street, I didn’t hear from you either.” Which I get but, he’s specifically spending time away from me..if I don’t hear from him I don’t wanna always be the first one to text him because then I seem clingy. UGH. So I said that and he hung up on me....apdnajxoanejxlan