Aggression

I’ve had two dreams this week where I am aggressive with my words. Harsh, bitter, angry, combative just not nice at all. In real life I’m not like that but my man can really get on my nerves and to him I speak with an attitude when I’m upset or say sky things but always in a calm manner. He is aggressive with his speech and tone of voice in real life but I can’t match his energy or the house would go up in flames. Am I having these dreams because he’s arguing with me so close to the time we go to bed or could it be pent up anger or aggression not expressed to him? Am I secretly like an angry aggressive person or something? Why do I have these dreams?