What would make you stay with your mate that cheats on you ?

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My husband and I have been together for 12 years next month. We have 2 children, they're 4&2. That being said, cheating is a deal breaker. I'm packing my children and leaving. No questions asked.

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Ain’t shit that would keep me around if my man was cheating. Finances? I’d move back to my moms house no matter my age if that was the case. Kids? Split￼ custody 🤷🏻‍♀️ I would never downgrade myself again & stick around someone who is a cheater.

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Absolutely not a fucking thing.

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I stayed with my ex because of finances.  I couldn't afford to leave and get a new place and take my dog.

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He didn’t think of any of those things when he cheated so i I won’t think off any of those things either

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I may co live if I had no where to go and not for long.. but us as a couple.. hell no.. theres no going back.
He wouldn't forgive me or take me back either.

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Nothing.

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In the past it bit me in the ass that I stayed so I will no longer ever do that. I was with my cheating ex for five years, walked in on him twice, he knew I didn’t want to be alone so he use that to his advantage to get what he wanted, he told every single woman the same story, so they would feel bad for him, he grew up in the system, he had bipolar, he was unstable he couldn’t keep jobs, he was homeless at one point and was sleeping on the floor in my office, he didn’t wanna partner he wanted someone he could use, clean up all of his messes, he had tickets in every single town that he would neglect and they would turn into warrants and arrests and having to pay the bail etc. He knew I didn’t want to be alone and he use that to his advantage. Unfortunately back then I used to settle for whatever would have me now I know better. I had two miscarriages and was emotionally connected and attached and he knew that he was just a piece of shit. He slept with half our town I found out in the end he proudly told me. I dealt with everything alone. I will never deal with that crap again I will never tolerate bullshit, I told guys day one I do not chase after her man, effort and consistency are important, if you start making the effort so will I, I will match your effort. I’m not dealing with this crap of me doing the maximum while they do the minimum ever again, I will never put up with emotional abuse mental abuse physical abuse verbal abuse, guilt, manipulation, gaslighting, you name it never again.

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Nothing!!!!

What would make you stay with your mate that cheats on you ?

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