Me and my boyfriend have been together 10 months; we are very happy together and have a healthy relationship. From the start I always knew he was struggling with mental issues but after some persuasion I managed to get him to sign up to therapy. He is not keen on the idea of therapy and claims that he 'doesn't need it' and 'doesn't want to talk to a therapist'.

He ended up removing himself from the waiting list and told me 'he was going to seek help from the mental support staff at his college' but he never did.

I feel like he has a lot of complex issues and none of us understand what he is suffering from. He feels depressed, eats one meal every 2 days and has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol (claims he can't feel emotions unless he has alcohol).

I am very worried about him and don't know what to do. I have tried to persuade him to sign up to therapy again but he doesn't want help and refuses. I am worried about how these problems will have a long term effect on him if he does not get help. Any advice would be appreciated