Arguing about daycare

Sonia

I need to vent! I go back to work in January & my husband and I keep arguing about daycare. His mom babysits his 2 nephews and could technically babysit our daughter but I just don’t feel at peace with that. She has never really taken an interest to get to know our daughter. She has only come over 2 times for less than an hour since she was born. I don’t have any problems with my mother in law but the thought of leaving my daughter with her doesn’t sit right. She’s a hoarder by my husband said he’d make sure she cleans up before January. She also has some anxiety issues. I feel like a horrible person for not being able to just be ok with this.

Or would be cheaper to have her care for our daughter.. does anyone have any advice or insight to using your MIL as a day care provider?