Idk how to fix my marriage

How can I get my husband to treat me better and help me? I’m so tired of not getting any help around the house and he never puts me first. For example the other day I was crying because of how overwhelmed I am because I run my own business and the house is a disaster and the kids were being horrible and he just got dressed and went hunting anyway. Before I was crying he’d asked if he could go and I said “I’m not going to tell you no because you would just be mad at me for the rest of the day”. He did nothing about me being upset and left the house anyway which I find very upsetting because I feel like he should care when I’m upset. I feel like I empty all of my love into him in every single love language only to receive nothing in return and I’ve told him this over and over only for him to never change. I’m tired. I’m drained. I’ve explained all the ways he could fix things and he says he’s sorry but never changes. I tried giving him all the love thinking that would make him give in return and I continue to get nothing. I’ve tried handing him every single way he could make me happy or make my life better and he doesn’t do it. I don’t know any other strategy to fix things. We’ve read the five love languages book together. We’ve had multiple conversations about it. He won’t do anything differently. I don’t want to divorce because I fucking love him. I just want him to love me in return. I’m asking for the bare minimum. Like I just want him to do a single house chore when he’s off work. I just want him to make an effort to show me he loves me in any way at all. I literally have all of the love languages and I would accept his love in any way if he would just give it to me. He says he loves me and he wants to be married to me but yet he doesn’t put in effort.