How would you feel if your Friend with Benefit was sleeping with someone else?

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The guy I’ve been sleeping with as a Friends with Benefits situation asked me today how I would feel if he were also sleeping with someone else. I know I have no right to be bothered by this because we aren’t in a relationship. But it still bothered me a bit. Just wondering how others would respond.

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If your bothered by it then you might have feelings for him as more than FWB.

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I’d be bothered and end it. Only because I’d want that person to be exclusive sexually with me because I don’t want to catch anything from anyone else, not so much because of feelings.

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That doesn’t sound like a FWB if you have jealous feelings over him sleeping around. If you have feelings for him and are bothered by it, you need to end it. He’s not in the wrong, he’s entitled to sleep with whoever he wants, and this is why FWB rarely works.

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For me it would be a bother because I don’t know if they would have safe sex thus causing me a greater risk than casual sex already increases. I would end it

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I’d be bothered because of the whole possible STD/STI thing risk as well

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I definitely wouldn’t want to be involved with someone sleeping with multiple people.. it’s just a safety thing, nothing to do with feelings. What’s the need of sleeping with 2 women?

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I’d be more worried about whether or not they are being safe with someone else.....personal I would prefer exclusivity of it being just me and him so I would end it if he wanted to sleep with others

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Before I agree to be someone’s “friend with benefits” I would definitely make it clear neither one of us can sleep with other people unless we stop messing with each other... 😆 that’s just me... I’m like super scared to get an std.. 
so maybe y’all should stop and go separate ways..

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If we had agreed not to sleep with others, I would be bummed. But every FWB I’ve had is just a piece of ass, so whatever 🤷🏼‍♀️ The whole point is that it’s not a relationship. It’s needy to expect anything more from it.

How would you feel if your Friend with Benefit was sleeping with someone else?

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