Advice help???

So . When I shower , I clean my Vagina , like even the labia ? I believe that’s what it’s called . And I’ve been doing this my whole life due to it sticking out past my vagina lips? And I’ve noticed that my labia is dry? Like all the time ? And it makes me very insecure ? How do I properly wash down there ? And how can I fix the dryness ? 😓 I’m insecure .. please don’t be rude in the comments ... I have feelings ... I just don’t know how to keep down there healthy? Or how to know it’s healthy? I shower regularly, everyday.