***since people automatically assume the worst 🙄 I wasn’t not saying he’s allowed to have friends as in I’m “doing him a favor” grow up. I meant it as I don’t care who he is friends with. We have trust in our relationship and I don’t suspect anything weird as in him cheating.

My husband is allowed to have whatever friends he wants. I trust him and I don’t think it’s weird in a way where I think he cheating or anything like that. (Not that type of post)

He has a friend at work that he’s close with now. We’ve had him and his girlfriend over for dinner once. We all got along great. No issues. I like them both. We don’t really talk though. I’d like to but I don’t think she’s interested in being friends.

My husband and the girlfriend text every so often. Usually about her bf (my husband’s friend) but I feel left out. Like they all three can talk and be friends but I’m just kind of excluded. I don’t know why. They don’t have kids but we do. I’m a SAHM. I feel like that’s a big reason I’m excluded but it sucks lol I’m an adult. I shouldn’t care about any of that. It just sucks seeing my husband get to have the social life I’d like to be apart of. I don’t want him to be miserable too. I just want to also be happy and have friends.

* I DID try to be more present in their friendship..

*also, my husband will go visit them and hang out but never asks if I or the kids would like to go. Yes I’m aware of covid but they work together and are around each other constantly