What to do when your partner wont get tested

Question

Me n my husband have been ttc for well over a year now and ive had blood work done multiple times and my dr says im healthy. The dr has given me referrals for my husband to get his sperm tested and each time he says he'll do it and then he changes his mind. Im trying to have faith and trust in God for his will n timing but im getting very frustrated!  What do I do?

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I concur. It took a while  (I.e. 1.5 years) for my husband to finally get tested. I think it's hard for anyone to go through infertility testing and the motivation needs to be there. I didn't push him, thinking that he just wasn't ready to conceive yet (but who is?!?), but maybe because I wasn't really either :). But here we are now, on to the next phase of testing. Good luck!!!

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I don't think men want to know if they're fertile or not. But for us women we need to know!

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I think my boyfriend will be the same way. It's we will do whatever it takes until it comes down to it. I have had a healthy child with someone else. I have had 2 misscaraiges with him and him and his ex wife had trouble a getting pregnant.

I'm just praying we get pregnant and it sticks so I don't have to press it.

He has anxiety so I think he is afraid he is the problem.

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After 2 1/2 years I've only just started to convince my man to go get tested! And I think it's only because enough time has passed now that he realises we need to know if there is something wrong. 
​So just hang in there ??

What to do when your partner wont get tested

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