I don't feel a connection with my baby

So I'm currently 29 weeks pregnant with my first baby. Started feeling his movements and everything around week 16 which is crazy.

I got all excited to go out and buy everything for him, and doing all the research and attending classes, but so far I feel nothing towards him as a baby. No love, no hate, no fear, no excitement, no connection, nothing. It's really nice to feel his movements and kicks sometimes but other times it just feels like " meh, he is kicking again".

I feel super blessed having the opportunity to have him without any complications whatsoever, and I'm super grateful for him, but can't stop thinking that something might be wrong specially after reading about that instant connection and after being told that once you feel the kicks and movements you will fall instantly in love and all that jazz but so far nothing, even though he is planned.

Is this normal ? Is there something wrong here ? Not sure what to think.