Cheating husband

So long story short I found out my husband was having an affair with a 22 year old. We live in NJ she lives in CA nothing happened physically. There is a lot more to that. It lasted for over a year before I caught him. We will be married 2 years in May.

I decided I am filing for divorce.

My question is. I am due April 13 with our second kid together (4th all together)

Is it wrong of me for now wanting to labor alone and just have him come in while I push so he is still present for the birth.