My husband and I aren’t doing so well

We are currently having issues with intimacy. He’s suffering from erectile dysfunction and he refuses to see a doctor. He won’t perform oral sex anymore because he thinks it’s a sin. He never kisses me or touches me anymore either. Id never cheat on my husband but this issue is starting to really frustrate me since this issue has been going on for 4 years. I’ve tried praying about it but I feel kind of ashamed to even talk about it with God or anyone else.

Thanks for the advice ladies I really appreciate the support. My prayers have been answered my husband and I had a great talk apparently he’s been very stressed with balancing work and family. We had an at home date Friday and we were able to be intimate Friday and last night. He’s acting like the sweet, sensitive man I fell in love with and I’m really praying things continue to go well.