I'm not even pregnant. We've been trying 6 months (as of this month) and to help me get through it, I write down possible names.

Dudes.

This is hard.

My daughter's name is Cécilia Mary after my mother and my partner's grandmother who raised him. It feels like it was SO easy to come up with that. Now, picking a name for a possible second baby is SO FREAKING HARD lol.

Anyone else struggling?

Héléna*** is a big contender, that was my mother's younger sister who recently died...and now my mother is dying of cancer. So we thought having their names together as our children would be a loving reminder.

But I also want to have this child have their *own* name...