How to handle a dead beat!! ??

I’m so furious! I’m just tired of picking up the slack.

How to handle a “MAN” who all of a sudden wants to be absent ( as a father/ partner & provider) I’m lost for words at this point. Bills aren’t being paid we have an apt together. I have no income at the moment. Just received a job offer. We have 3+ kids!

He’s gone for days at a time. When is enough a enough? I’m just scared I guess. If he is “home” he will either sleep or leave hella early no interaction with the children if so MINIMAL!!!

But my son who loves the shit out his dad will NEVER understand. So I guess that’s what breaks my heart. I don’t want my children Separated!

But I can’t keep doing this alone! He comes and goes as he pleases. No one to answer to just his self.

There’s so much more this is just the icing on the cake!! Idk I just needed to vent! And a kick in the ass. It’s just scary when you have kids & been with the same person all your 20’s and that’s all I know.

But my life wasn’t always like this 💔 I can’t put all the blame but this had to END!!!!!

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