TTC 21

Hey guys! Little Tmi. My boy friend & I have been trying to convince for a while now.. We’ve been trying everyday/ everyother day. But On the 13th-14th of this Month I started to have brown when I wiped and It started to turn into Light Pink With a little CM in it.. This Happened last Month and Started AF, The next day. And this month nothing after this happened. I thought it was my period so I put a Tampon in and and went to go change it and it completely stopped... I took a pregnancy test on the 17th and the 20and they both came out negative. Should I wait to see if it comes?? How long does it usually take for a + to show?🥺 Anyone else experienced this?? I still haven’t had AF this Month and is 23 days late.. I had gallbladder surgery last month I don’t know if that messed up anything or not. Anything???