Community Changing Rant

Ali

Does anyone else whose been off and on this app through the years feel like it’s dramatically changed? But not for the better?

I’ve been using this app since 2015 off and on through pregnancies, postpartum, losses, etc. when I first started using this app it was a mostly positive uplifting community, now it seems like a teenage drama fest most days. Am I the only one thinking this? I can’t be alone.

I see more posts about sleeping with married or taken men, petty mistreatment of significant others bc of pride, women being cruel to each other over stupid things like bed sharing/parenting/relationship topics/ttc, etc. I have my settings filtered and only am following groups I’m interested in but it’s like there’s this giant group of grown women acting like petty teenagers.

I haven’t experienced any of it on any of my posts or comments but I see it nonstop. I find it really kind of sad. We go through enough as women can’t we just be supportive and uplifting. Oh and to those many women who I keep seeing on here that this applies to, STOP SLEEPING WITH MARRIED MEN, and stop asking why he won’t leave his family for you or whatever. Absolutely trashy to be posting about this. Both parties are equally guilty and no one should be supporting you’re relationship with a married man. To those women who have gone through being cheated on and healed (even if that means your marriage is still intact) YOU’RE THE REAL MVP QUEEN! That is hard and beyond painful.

I just know I can’t be the only one whose seeing this nonsense. Did I just not notice it before?