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I mean you’re waffling back and forth so let your fiancé go because he deserves someone who is 100%
NEED TO MAKE A DECISION
So I’ve been with my fiancé for almost 10 years. We were suppose to buy a house this past October. Because of the housing market in our area that didn’t work out. He has decided to save more money to have a bigger down payment. We moved out our apartment and is staying with our parents separately. Lately this man has came into my life that I been with in the past. He know everything about what’s going on. He on the other hand wants to buy me a house. He wants to take me on a trip in about two weeks . I have been on a roller coaster with my fiancé and I said I am not putting up with this in 2021. I love my fiancé but I wondering if I need to start fresh or keep fighting for my current relationship.
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I think you need to start fresh. While idk the history with your 10yr relationship, it does seem like it’s going nowhere. That’s not a place you want to be. On the other hand I wouldn’t get to crazy and put all your eggs in a basket with this guy from your past. I’ve found those type of relationships don’t typically pan out. There’s a reason you broke up or didn’t work out. Maybe you’ve both changed and can work. Who knows. Just be careful! Good luck in 2021! You deserve to be happy!
It's been 10 years?!?! Yeah.... I wouldn't be waiting around much longer. A starter home isn't a forever home. You have to just get into the game and upgrade once you get decent equity in the home. You'll never be able to save at a faster rate than the equity that is gaining on other people's property. So you have to get into something and leverage the market. He's a man he should know this.
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