He doesn’t wanna have sex

I’ve lived with my boyfriend for a year and half now, and we just. never. have. Sex.

We’ve been dating since may of 2019 (we’ve known each other for a year beforehand), and moved in together August 2019 and from then on he just hasn’t wanted sex. I ignored it for awhile telling myself maybe he’s just stressed, but 2 months of living with each other I called him out on it and tried talking to him. He said he just didn’t feel like having sex and was stressed from work. At this point I was getting it once a week to every 2-3 weeks. (I WISH I HAD THAT NOW)

As time went on we were having sex less and less. From every 3 weeks, to once a month, to once every 2 months, and so on. We don’t really fight, and when we do it’s usually over small things. I’ve talked to him about it numerous times, fought about it with him, everything. And I’ve heard every excuse; I don’t want to get you pregnant (his most used excuse; even when I was on birthcontrol but what’s the point of birthcontrol when I’m not even getting my back blown out p.s. I know some women use it for periods and such but I use it so I don’t get pregnant), I don’t feel good tonight, it’s late and I’m tired, you stink (I went to the gunk right after he said that and she said I was fine after testing me) and when we fight about not having sex it’s because I’m being childish and he isn’t attracted to me because I’m acting childish.

It’s always a different excuse and I can’t do it anymore. I’m 21 and stuck in an abstinence relationship, I don’t need it everyday but it just makes me feel unwanted. He refuses to talk to me about it anymore since we just fight now whenever I bring it up.

Has anyone experienced this before? What should I do? I’m just over it at this point and really need to rant since he won’t help himself