Was I insensitive?

My husband has been annoying the shit outta me about Having another. We already have one child together already but some reason this time he is telling me what to do and even how to move. Yes. He said I shouldnt be crack my back in the bed and twist. Omg. He went out and got milk and orange juice and told me how many water bottles a day I need to drink. I finally told him to quit worrying about me. I just blurted out “crackheads and 15 year olds get pregnant all the time!! I’m good!”. Now he all mad saying I’m not trying hard enough and I don’t care about my future children. I’m lazy and not taking it serious. He thinks I’m talking bad about his mom since she was on drugs and had him at 14. I ain’t meant that. I meant they don’t try anything to get pregnant and they always getting pregnant.