Okay so my husband admitted the other day that he cheated on me in 2018 and got his co worker pregnant ... he told me that the kid is 1 years old

So he decided to pack his stuff and leave to San Diego to live at his parents and the other child lives there also ...

Well I take marriage seriously so I tried to tell him let’s work it out and go to counseling and that we can work on forgiveness and he says no and that he sees us working out in the very far future.....

My parents said that I shouldn’t let him in the house (we lived with my parents) until there’s a court order because they said it’s wrong that he packs his stuff and leaves us and comes back calm .

They also said I either call him tonight and give him an hour to think about what he wants to do with our marriage or show up to his house ( he stays with his parents ) and tell him to his face and tell the parents off for not encouraging him to go home to fix things with his wife ...

What should I do ?????? I STILL LOVE HIM