Anyone else petrified to try again?

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Connie

I had 5 miscarriages with my ex partner about 3 years ago. I've since met someone else, we've got our own home and this is our first month trying. I'm so scared of being pregnant and not getting past 6 weeks again. It will confirm that the issue is with me and not my ex. 😭

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DP

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I’ve had one early miscarriage. We are on month 4 of trying since then. We were ready to try again as soon as the doctor gave the Ok, but I’m terrified of going through another loss once I am pregnant again .

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Connie • Jan 17, 2021
It is so scary. I'd love to be able to enjoy a pregnancy but as soon as I see the lines I go into panic mode. Sending you all the luck xx

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I'm so sorry! I've had one miscarriage, and I can't imagine having 5! But if having children is something you and your husband want, you shouldn't let fear hold you back from trying. 💕

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Connie • Jan 10, 2021
Thank you. You're so right! I can't be afraid. I guess what will be will be. It sounds horrible but I'm sure my losses were fate, my ex was so controlling and abusive. Now I'm happier than I've ever been and completely myself. Maybe my body will feel that it's a better environment for my rainbow baby ❤ I'm so sorry to hear of your loss too. I hope you're doing OK and if you ever want to chat I'm here xxx

Ra

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I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. My husband and I recently suffered 2 miscarriages, one was a chemical, the other was twins which resulted in needing a D&C because it was a missed miscarriage. I just had the procedure Wednesday and am healing fine, but emotionally I'm so scared to even think about trying. On one hand I want to have a baby as soon as possible because we are so ready for another (we have a 2 y/o as well) and on the other hand I want to say we're going to be a one child family because I'm just too scared to experience the heartbreak again ♥️ hang in there and stay hopeful! Best of luck to you.

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Connie • Jan 10, 2021
I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. I'm glad to hear you are healing well. Its definitely the emotional side to it that effects you the most. I have all the hope and faith you will have your beautiful rainbow baby. Us women never give up ❤ xxxxx